2 Truths About Social Media – Part Two

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2 Truths About Social Media Part 2The last time you and I met, we talked about Part One of 2 Truths About Social Media.

If you haven’t read it, I invite you to do so.

Of course, there are more than 2 important points about social media, but we’ll deal with 2 of the most important in this series.

Here are the 2 Truths:

  • Social media must be integrated
  • The effects of social media marketing are cumulative

What Do I Mean The Effects Are Cumulative?

Like most marketing, the benefits of marketing via social media build over time. This is a tough one for many because not all of us are wired to be patient. In the case of social media, you’re just going to have to slow down a bit, because there are few ways around it.

Here are 4 reasons why:

We Like Instant Gratification

Aren’t we accustomed to getting what we want by clicking a button, getting in a car, picking up the phone or giving money to someone? Yes, we are. We are down-right spoiled in this manner, which I’m not saying is a bad thing. What this does is stretch our limits between the instant gratification of today’s life that we are used to, and the need for strategy and nurturing that must go into social media if done correctly.

It’s Not Direct Response Marketing

I lived in a world of direct response marketing while with Time Warner from 1988 – 1997. Almost every message we sent out over radio, TV, telemarketing, direct sales, outdoor (billboard), phone-on-hold messages, etc. was meant to encourage people to pick up the phone and call our 800 number immediately to order our service. You might not think so, but it was quite an exhilarating experience to be held responsible for that kind of response….nerve-wracking at times, but exhilarating.

That’s not what we’re doing with social media

What are we doing?

  • We’re being strategic about the messages we are communicating.
  • We’re choosing the appropriate channels, or sites, to use to engage our potential clients and other interested parties.
  • We’re searching for people, meeting them, getting to know them, and actually having conversations with them.
  • We’re listening to them, learning from them, and using what they have to say to develop the products and services we offer so that we can meet real needs.

We Need To Earn The Right To Be Promotional

Before we ever begin to sell what we do, we must earn the right to do so. If we enter these social spheres with pure promotion before we have invested time doing what I just mentioned in the last two points above, which is to build social capital by developing relationships and being helpful, we risk turning people off, irritating them, and losing the opportunity to ever build a relationship with them.

The exception to this is when brands that have already built universal appeal as a commodity, such as Amazon.com and others who have spent millions of dollars prior to social to help the world understand what they do, broadcast their sales promotions. I think they could build even stronger bonds with customers if they were more social, but that’s a post for another day.

We Need To Develop Goals For Social Media Use

Perhaps that’s not how we started when we were introduced to social media. We’re all human. We’re curious. Many of us like to learn and try new things. I’m one of those people. I’m a sponge that can’t get enough of learning new things on a constant basis. I often dip my toe into the water to see what’s going on.

Whether we dove head-first into social media or not, the need to set goals for our use of these channels has never been more important than it is today. People are finding out this can take a large portion of their days if they don’t focus on why they’re there. I know I could! I love these tools, but I have to be careful, just like you do if you are operating a business. If you’re in this just for fun and education, with no marketing and communication demands behind you, by all means, go ahead and have fun!

In other words, we need to set goals. This is no different than any other marketing activity we’ve undertaken in the past. The difference is that we have never been more in charge of the content, the distribution, the tone, the interaction, the feedback, the follow-up and the relationships that we are attempting to develop.

Given those 4 reasons, you might also want to keep these thoughts in mind about your Social Media use:

Quality But Not Epic

Even though we need to be strategic, set goals and be focused, don’t get hung up over perfection. As my friend Deb Knupp of Growth Play says:

“Perfect is the enemy of good.”

I am as guilty of this as the next person. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect in order for it to be productive. I treat some parts of my business life like this and it holds me back. This doesn’t apply to the development and nurturing of relationships via social media. It is my firm belief that:

“Every comment you make doesn’t have to be epic or of New York Times Bestseller List quality.”

Who develops relationships by only saying brilliant things? Do you walk up to someone new at a Business After Hours and say,

“Well, good evening!  Did you hear about the World Food Programme’s latest policy on feeding hungry nations?

Of course not!

  • You nurture the relationship.
  • You engage in a bit of small talk.
  • You mention that you have to leave by 6:45 to pick up your son at football practice.
  • You ask if the other person has any children.
  • You ask where they work.
  • You listen.
  • You comment accordingly.
  • You contribute a comment that is related.
  • You talk about what happened in the markets today.
  • In other words, you take steps in putting together a conversation that might someday lead to some type of business relationship or friendship.

My last piece of advice for you:

“Be patient!” The effects of social media marketing are cumulative. You must put in the time, effort, and resources to develop the relationships that lead to what you hope to accomplish.”

What do you think?  What are your truths about social media?

Here is part 1 of this discussion: 2 Truths About Social Media – Part One

Nancy Myrland, Myrland Marketing & Social Media and LinkedIn Coach For LawyersNancy Myrland is a Marketing and Business Development Plan Consultant, and a Content, Social & Digital Media Speaker, Trainer & Advisor, helping lawyers and legal marketers grow by integrating all marketing disciplines. She is a frequent LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook for Business trainer, as well as a content marketing specialist. She helps lawyers, law firms, and legal marketers understand how to make their marketing and business development efforts more relevant to their current and potential clients, and helps lead law firms through their online digital strategy when dealing with high-stakes, visible cases. As an early and constant adopter of social and digital media and technology, she also helps firms with blogging, podcasts, video marketing, and livestreaming. If you would like to reserve an hour of Nancy’s time to begin talking strategy or think through an issue you are having, you can do that here. She can be reached via email here.